You are stronger and you are
a better person
if you constantly choose to love…
Love makes a difference.
When you feel that you have
nothing more to give,
you can love,
and you will thus have more.
Love requires nothing more of you—
you have a heart big enough for it,
regardless of the pains, the betrayals,
the sorrows, and the scars it carries.
You may feel that your capacity to love
has run out over the years.
But is it ever really so?
You may feel a need to hate,
a right to, some justification, perhaps.
But hate does take so much more
from you than any reasons for it.
If you can love
when you are least expected to,
you gain more.
The love in your heart
heals you and builds you up.
And because of the love in your heart,
your soul bears no unnecessary burdens—
no bitterness, no hate, no looping rage.
You may lose the desire for revenge,
or the desire to fight or fight back,
but you will not lose yourself.
You thus win.
You gain.
You move on.
You are stronger and you are
a better person
if you constantly choose to love.
May you find all the reasons to,
even though you need not one.
©benielangat, 2021.
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Oh wow, what a beautifully written piece about love and all the charming things it encompasses. Your style of writing is a notch higher, Benie. And that warms the cockles of my heart. Keep writing. Thanks too for your following. Now Imma have to see your next posts.
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I am happy about your thoughts on this piece and honored by your compliments on my writing. Thank you so much, Minsah 😊
And thank you for taking the time to read this and keeping up ❤
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You’re welcome, my new friend Benie. Such a gifted writer you are. 👏💖💖
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Thank you! 😀
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Wow.. I wish I could forget all hatred within me.
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I wish it so for your soul ☺
May you heal, may you let go, and may you move on ❤
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“You may lose the desire for revenge,
or the desire to fight or fight back,
but you will not lose yourself.
You thus win.
You gain.
You move on.” I really loved this lines in particular, it’s the ultimate truth for me.
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I am happy and touched that the lines meant something true to you ❤
Thank you, Daphny!
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It takes strength and courage to be able to do that. ❤️
You’re most welcome! 😊
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It does take much strength and courage. But I believe it is not impossible ☺ it is easier to love than to hate, revenge, or fight back, even when those feel more rewarding. But undeniably, it also takes a lot to be able to love when you would otherwise not
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You said it all 👍😊
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